Sunday, July 14, 2013

A Ramadan 2013 Message

Ramadan is here again providing us the opportunity to reach out to Allah SWT more than ever asking for His forgiveness and blessings. As Allah has singled out this month more so than others for showering His blessings and mercy, it is only prudent that we also use the opportunity to reassess our conditions, our purpose and direction in life, and accordingly make appropriate changes in line with His commands.
This Ramadan, as we look at the state of Muslims around the world in general, we see that Muslim suffering has reached its highest levels that it has ever been in recent memory. In many affected communities and countries, Muslims are being subjected to human torture, killing, persecution, and all forms of unimaginable suffering. With every passing day, their plight does not seem to be getting any better. Images of families with shattered homes, dead children, faces traumatized from the horrors of rape, hunger, and persecution are plastered throughout the media channels. As Muslims, one cannot stop but wonder whether we are being punished for our doings or if it is a test of our faiths. We also ask if something can be done to not only just alleviate these sufferings but to ensure that it does not spread to engulf others too.
This Ramadan we ought to pause and reflect upon this condition of the people that share our faith.
In times of hardship, we know both from Quran and Hadith that we should persevere with patience, prayers, and Dua. But it is also prudent that we reflect whether our situations are due to our conduct unbecoming of a Muslim. Such a conduct has the tendency to keep us preoccupied with the attractions of this world in turn distracting us from Allah’s remembrance and subservience. It then should come as no surprise to us that when we turn a blind eye to the divine truths and warnings, we forfeit his blessings and mercy and pay a price both in this world and the hereafter.

Relearn the Message of Quran

Let us then refocus this Ramadan and read and listen a bit more attentively to those divine truths that Allah tells us in the Quran. With added devotion and dedication, we will be able to hear and understand Quran’s verses and Allah’s wisdom in those direct messages to us. That will then pave the way toward our transformation and open up Allah’s gates for His mercy, forgiveness, and kindness, which we need so desperately to be successful in this life and the hereafter. As we ponder over those messages, we will also relearn what is really good for us enabling us to reprioritize accordingly. Those messages will also remind us that a soul that is forgiven and less burdened with sins can bring more benefit to us than the one burdened with materialistic gains of this life. As Allah tells us in the Quran,
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‘Say: “In the bounty of Allah, and in His mercy; therein let them rejoice.” That is better than what (the wealth) they amass.’ (Surah Younus, 58.)
Relearning and internalizing what’s good for us will also provide us with the spiritual fuel that we need to motivate ourselves to do more good and to bring Quran in our lives rather than merely paying lip service to its messages and referring to them as superficial maxims. After all, unless we truly understand what is good for us and how that relates to the truth, our purpose in life, and our lives in general, how else can we get spiritually motivated?
Our salaf (righteous followers of the prophet) clearly understood and internalized those divine truths and their behaviors clearly reflected that understanding. Imam Ahmad records from Abu Dardaa as saying:“If only you knew what you will certainly see upon your death, you would never eat again a single bite out of a craving appetite, and you would never again drink an extra sip of water for the pleasure of unquenchable and insatiable thirst.”

Tuesday, July 9, 2013

Tips for those who don't Wear Hijab/Headscarf

As Salaam Alaikum,  Ramadaan Mubarak all you beautiful muslimahs!  Please take a minute to read this beautiful article I found on ummah.com. May the Almighty Allah accept all our good deeds during this Blessed month of Ramadaan, Inshaa Allah.  

One of the most difficult decisions many Muslim sisters face is the
decision to start wearing hijab. This is true for converts, but also
sisters who come from muslim families that have a lack of knowledge
about their islamic duties.

For many sisters, it can be a struggle to wear hijab because once you
start wearing your hijab or headscarf, you are suddenly announcing to
everyone who sees you that "I am a Muslim". So here are some Tips
to help you gain the knowledge and confidence to wear hijab.

Tip 1: Learn About Hijab
There is so much information out there and so many sisters that
cover, so either read or talk to someone with islamic knowledge. Once
you know the reward and wisdoms for wearing hijab, it will help erase
any of your insecurities and misconceptions.

Various statements are made about why you should wear hijab, such as
for modesty or for protection, but the real reason why muslim women
wear hijab is because Allah has commanded it. And Whenever anyone
asks you, why do you dress like that, that is the only answer you
need to give them.

" And say to the believing women that they cast down their looks and
guard their private parts and do not display their ornaments except
what appears thereof, and let them wear their head-coverings
(khimars) over their bosoms (jaybs), and not display their ornaments
except to their husbands.... "(Qur'an chapter 24:verse 31)



Tip 2: Experiment with different forms of head cover.
Most sisters, approached hijab in several stages.
The first step is to learn about hijab. Usually the next stage is
the wearing of modest clothing such as the blouse and jumper, tunic
and long skirt. The later stage is to experiment with wearing some
form of headcover or hat. And the final stage is to wear the hijab
or headscarf.

Asma daughter of Abu Bakr, entered upon the prophet muahmmed while
she was wearing thin clothes. Muhammed turned his attention from
her. And said: 'O Asma', when a woman reaches the age of
menstruation, it does not suit her that she displays her parts of
body except this and this, and he pointed to her face and hands.'
(Narrated Aisha in Abu Dawud hadith 2:4092)


Tip 3: JUST DO IT
Set a day and when that day comes, do it. Don't back down, don't make
excuses and don't give up. Just Do it!

Ask Allah to give you strength.
Ask Him to make it easy for you.
Ask Him to help you.
Remember He is always there for you.
Remember how much He has given you,
Remember that He deserves this from you.
Remember the promise of Jannah.

Don't worry about tomorrow. Just concentrate on getting through
today, and leave tomorrow to Allah until it gets here.

Tip 4: Surround yourself with good practising sisters
The issue of choosing the right friends is essential for strengthing
your faith. Befriending Muslims that have knowledge and that pray 5
times a day on time is an essential means for enhancing your belief
and character.

Tip 5: Don't judge sisters already wearing hijab, they're not your
role model

Many sisters use the fact that some sisters that wear hijab are not
religious and commit haram as an excuse as to why they don't feel the
need to wear hijab. But who cares about other people, what they do
is their business
Allah will judge them, and Allah will also judge you for what you did
and didn't do!


We cannot judge islam based on the actions of some muslims, the faith
is perfect people are not, and the commandments of Allah have been
set and we are obliged to follow them.

Tip 6: Remember allah Loves you
Even when it seems like the whole world is against you, Allah is
always there for you when you turn to Him. And we must remember
that Allah knows best and has promised paradise to those who remain
steadfast in their faith in Him and who trust in Him.

Yes, it maybe difficult to wear hijab due to lack of`confidence, you
may be rejected by your family or your friends. But if you have
patience and keep trusting in Allah, you will know that it was worth
it and have no regrets.

True courage is going ahead to do what's right even though you are
still nervous and scared. So ignore the worries and fears and the
whispers of shaytan.

Never feel that you are alone, or that you are the only one who is
scared and worried and nervous. Just about every other sister who has
travelled down this road has gone through the same things.

Source: http://www.ummah.com

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Shukran/Thank you! Wishing you all a Blessed week ahead. Inshaa Allah (God Willing)



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Friday, July 5, 2013

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And here is my 2nd look in The 1 Abaya 5 ways inspiration.

Shukran for stopping by......Style 3 up next! It's almost Ramadaan!